I’m a girl in college, and I have a group of friends. Recently, two people in our group started talking in a romantic way, but there’s a big problem.
The guy has been talking really badly about the girl behind her back and even to her face sometimes. About a month ago, he told me that she “disgusts” him and that he find her annoying. The context was that she had been involved with another guy,more like a sneaky link situation that didn’t end well. Ever since then, he’s constantly said negative things about her. And the things he said to her face are
telling her she dresses badly and that she should look for psychological help instead of men.
The thing is, she doesn’t know that he said she disgusts him and that she was really easy, and I don’t know if I should tell her.
Another issue is that they both seem embarrassed to admit they’re actually something.And it just makes everything more confusing and awkward.
On top of that, my friend can be kind of needy when it comes to her sex life, so everything is going to fast and it’s not going to last much I fear and I don’t want anything to be awkward in the future
And honestly, he’s a huge red flag. She recently had a birthday, and he didn’t give her anything in fact, she was the one who gave him a gift. It was a small gift but still he didn’t get her anything at all he didn’t even pay for the meal also he didn’t even wish her a happy birthday
Now the rest of our friend group doesn’t even want to be around them anymore because the situation feels weird and uncomfortable. Everyone knows the things he’s said about her, and it just makes everything awkward.
Btw I’m sorry for the redaction I’m kinda of bad with that stuff and I really hope you can help me with this situation