WIBTAH if I ever voiced an issue that happened at my friend's wedding?
So my friend & her whole family HAVE MONEY. Her now husband also has it good-That's not a contributing factor.
There was a wedding with 200 guests. For dinner they had everyone get called to line up for food by their table number, and my table was last. The bride and groom also allowed the people they hired to get in line for food (photographers, photobooth owner, DJ, musicians), so they were with us in line. The line stopped moving when there was like 20something people in line for a while because trays were completely empty and guests were expecting them to get refilled. Nope, they were just out of food (also the reception staff only served what was brought as the bride and groom got catered Mexican from a different restaurant). There was a make your own Mexican iceberg salad and tiny tacos we were served one of. Also they had guests bring potluck desserts because they didn't care for or want a wedding cake. So I'm a bit bummed that I stressed out over helping to make a dessert, then I wasn't even really fed.
This is probably a scenario not going to happen but let's say one day soon I get specifically asked by the Bride or Groom or her family "what did you think of the wedding," "how was the food," - I want so bad to say it was lovely but guests including myself didn't get to eat dinner and ask what happened, but is that not okay? I know sometimes people say you're never allowed to say anything bad about a wedding to the family and couple. Is this a complaint that I should "take that to my grave??"