u/FoodComprehensive597

My husband (28M) & I (27F) have been together since 2020, married 3 years, 2 kids. One born in 2021, the other born 2025. In 2021 I had suspicions that he was cheating on me, checked his phone and saw multiple messages with multiple different women. Confronted him as I was pregnant and post partum during these messages and discussed going our separate ways. As I was a 22 year old new mom I was too scared to be a single mom and decided to stay. Fast forward- life is great, pregnant again and in 2025 weeks have our baby. A few months after the baby is born, we buy our first home. Months of renovation and adjusting to our new life. Talk about how grateful and blessed we are almost every day. Then I get another suspicion. Look through his phone - so many messages. Nudes, videos, conversations about Valentine’s Day, and on the day our daughter is born. Messages that go back over 2 years. I’m done. We need to get divorced. He says he has issues. Idk what the fuck kind of issues he may have but whether it be a porn addiction or the desperation of attention from women I literally cannot be married to him. But we just bought a home, and I can’t afford to move out on my own with my kids. My first thought is a live in separation. Can anyone give advice on what I can do to make this transition easier?