u/Flynnstones8

Long story short my girlfriend of over 5 years is going on vacation with her family this year and I’ve been invited but my family is also going on their own vacation. She went on vacation with me and my family last year even though she didn’t really want to so I think it’s fair that I want to go with her and her family this year but my mom is upset with me that I’m choosing her and her family over my own. I can’t go on both vacations because of work and pto and whatnot. My choice is my girlfriend and her family’s vacation. Does this make me a bad son?