How do you slow down when it feels this good?
I’ve found myself getting attached faster than I’m comfortable with. Nothing is technically “wrong,” but the connection feels way too good in a way I’m not used to and I can feel my emotions trying to run ahead because of that. I know it's not just me, it's him as well.
For context, we’re seeing each other pretty regularly, probably around 10 hours a week on average, so I know that’s contributing to how quickly this is building.
Logically, I know it’s still new and I don’t want to build something up too quickly in my head. But emotionally, it’s hard not to lean into it when it feels this natural.
I’m not looking to cut things off or create distance for the sake of it. I just want to stay grounded and not lose perspective while still enjoying what’s happening.
What has actually helped you pace yourself in situations like this? Not distractions or shutting down, but real ways to stay steady while something is building?