u/Fluffy_Repeat_124

So I am age getting into a first relationship my question to you all is…..

what is your perspective or opinion on the boyfriend apologising on little things even when its not his mistake?

The girl i am seeing right now is sweet but she asks for me to kill my ego and say continuous sorry but since i had my ego for personal reasons since beginning i have a rough time killing it and I have got to a point that I am asking myself is this really I wanted? She supports me, she says sorry in her mistakes and even when not and the cutest complaint she did to me was ‘ you respect me a lott ye kya kehte ho ki “I will give you your space” aur “lmk when you are comfortable to talk” kuch khudse toh kaho pucho ek baar aur yaa phir atleast say I will hold you toghter until you say things out’ me being confused af have no idea how to deal with this

I used to believe girl or women want their spaces and will tell you things when they feel comfortable about(any advice on this will be really appreciated)

And yes whenever i meet her i pay for everything from food to drinks no flowers because she has a strict family and cannot bring flowers at home

But back to topic

What do you all feel? A man apologising is a feminine man or a guy who doesnt respect himself or he does respect himself but doesnt count his ego

A man who does apologise but at his mistake and not unnecessarily is a honourable n respectable man

I am open to also hear stories of these kinds of relationships are going for you all and how it ended for some of you

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u/Fluffy_Repeat_124 — 14 days ago

I am age 20M getting into a first relationship my question to you all is…..

what is your perspective or opinion on the boyfriend apologising on little things even when its not his mistake?

The girl i am seeing right now is sweet but she asks for me to kill my ego and say continuous sorry but since i had my ego for personal reasons since beginning i have a rough time killing it and I have got to a point that I am asking myself is this really I wanted? She supports me, she says sorry in her mistakes and even when not and the cutest complaint she did to me was ‘ you respect me a lott ye kya kehte ho ki “I will give you your space” aur “lmk when you are comfortable to talk” kuch khudse toh kaho pucho ek baar aur yaa phir atleast say I will hold you toghter until you say things out’ me being confused af have no idea how to deal with this

I used to believe girl or women want their spaces and will tell you things when they feel comfortable about(any advice on this will be really appreciated)

And yes whenever i meet her i pay for everything from food to drinks no flowers because she has a strict family and cannot bring flowers at home

But back to topic

What do you all feel? A man apologising is a feminine man or a guy who doesnt respect himself or he does respect himself but doesnt count his ego

A man who does apologise but at his mistake and not unnecessarily is a honourable n respectable man

I am open to also hear stories of these kinds of relationships are going for you all and how it ended for some of you

(We both are from maharashtra if that makes any difference)

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u/Fluffy_Repeat_124 — 14 days ago