Condoms, Viagra, & Texts ... Oh my!
We've been together nearly five years. We are definitely hitting the crossroads; a lot has happened and I'm deciding whether to jump ship or move forward. I'm wanting sincere opinions:
Month 4: Found a condom wrapper in the bathroom bin. He said he used condoms while masturbating. I didn't believe him then, don't believe him now. (He also had lotion and tissues bedside)
Month 18: He was in a really bad car accident. While we were cleaning out his totalled car, I found condoms in his console. He claimed he "forgot" they were in there from before we started dating. (Really, at 18 months?)
Month 26: Found Viagra in the gym bag he took to work with him (he did a train commute and went to the gym by his office in the city). He said he forgot they were in there, and put them there when he picked them up from the pharmacy. They also happened to be split into thirds ... very conveniently.
Month 30: Found another Viagra bottle in the console of his truck. His explanation was the same as Month 26.
There has been some other issues. I'm very close to asking the woman I suspect could have been the condom wrapper, because I think he has been very dishonest about the nature of their relationship (he said he hardly knows her), yet they hug/kiss each time they say hello or good-bye. And my gut just tugs at me that there is something more to it.
What do you do at this point? I've been told I'm crazy, I shouldn't have been "counting" the condoms ... I'm of the opinion that smoke = fire. And kind of tired of being told otherwise.
As for the texts? I don't see his texts, I just needed the catchy title. He also makes sure I never see his phone without him monitoring what I'm doing.