u/Fluffy-Caregiver4410

I doubt what I’m going to regret the most: not having a family or a job I don’t like?

I’m a man of almost 29 and due to personal circumstances (low self esteem en personal struggles) I never had a relationship. I feel failed for this very hard.

I like my job but because I did a careerswitch 2,5 years ago I still have to learn a lot and am mentally exhausted after work. I do also extra courses after work and am thinking of obtaining a bachelor degree in my industry next to my job.

I have almost no friends and only my dad as family. i feel very lonely and am very afraid to lose him one day.

I don’t know what to do: focus on work/study or foxus on dating and building my own family? What’s most important?