u/FlowerPristine4842

So I (27F) recently plucked up the courage to join a few dating apps and stated clearly that I use a power chair full time. I’m getting a lot of likes and some are from guys that I think are out of my league (disability or not) and out of curiosity or just for the hell of it, I’ve liked some back and quite a few of them have then messaged me.

Is it a thing for some guys who look like they wouldn’t have much trouble getting a girlfriend/are very attractive to message me knowing that I am a full time powerchair user?

One guy in particular I messaged back and the vibe was pretty sexually suggestive.

P.S. tried to post this on disability community but it didn’t allow it

So I (27F) recently plucked up the courage to join a few dating apps and stated clearly that I use a power chair full time. I’m getting a lot of likes and some are from guys that I think are out of my league (disability or not) and out of curiosity or just for the hell of it, I’ve liked some back and quite a few of them have then messaged me.

Is it a thing for some guys who look like they wouldn’t have much trouble getting a girlfriend/are very attractive to message me knowing that I am a full time powerchair user?

One guy in particular I messaged back and the vibe was pretty sexually suggestive.

Edit:

Thank you everyone for your perspective! I’ll definitely be careful and be strict in ruling out anyone that gives weird vibes.