I’m F20 and my use to be significant other is M19 currently am confused what to do since things ended with him having trauma still with his first love and I’m not sure what to do
Hello everyone I just need help on what to do about my situation. I’ve known my this guy for a bit since September of last year we didn’t contact much until January. That’s when it began with me and him full of love and discovering things we never knew about each other. But eventually he opened up more and being himself which I love. He’s always loving and kind towards me and I know deep down he’s somehow hurt by something which he never told me until yesterday. The day where I was overthinking since he wasn’t fully a 100 percent about himself.
So we talked in person which he always loved me and care about me. But he asked me if we were compatible which I said as of right now I want it to be since our relationship is still new and fresh. I asked back the same question he didn’t think we were but since cause in the end he had trouble explaining his response and feelings. I asked has he always had trouble communicating his feelings and he said no it only happen because his first gf when they were talking he found out that she was still in contact with her ex. Which he stayed for a year which ended in January of last year.
So he’s still trauma and hurt which is why he can’t be his full 100 percent of himself cause he’s scared and not fully healed. That’s when things ended. I know deep down it’s not his fault cause that was his first love and I was his second. I don’t hate him in anyway cause I understand why and it’s not his fault. We are still in contact as of right now cause it ended naturally. I still want to support him and be there for him. He’s not from where I am and I would drive to see him for an hour and a half. But he’ll be gone by next year since he’s graduating technical soon. What do you guys feel about my situation?