u/Flimsy_Hour_5792

I feel like I have to say that I love my bf a lot and this isn’t coming from a place of wanting to cheat. I think of myself as a very fluid person, I don’t hold sex to be something super Intimate and personal unless I feel that way about whoever im having sex with. I see it as more of a fun activity than something sacred ig. I’ve told this to my bf and we’ve talked abt it a bit and he knows how I feel and he knows that I view sex with him very differently than I would with anyone else. So he kinda knows im more open to the concept of fucking around per se. I’m not 100% on his thoughts of it but I know he’s not completely against it. For context there was a point In time we got close to having a foursome with some friends but one of the friends backed out, my bf was down tho. I want to have a genuine conversation and see what his actual thoughts are on this because I don’t want to open the relationship in the having multiple partners way, but more in the sleeping around a bit and having some group activities kinda way. I don’t know how to bring it up and also how not to sound like a huge whore who wants to just sleep around… I don’t think he would see it like that but im just kinda lost on this one.