My partner 43M and I 32F have been seeing each other over 7 months. We started having sex almost 2 months in. The sex has been great. We have amazing chemistry with each other and are in sync most of the time.
This past month, when we have had sex it's become almost 1 sided. His pleasure and orgasm overshadows mine. Or if I'm even close to an orgasm---I get stopped because of the stop&go method so he doesn't cum yet. So it's been leaving me somewhat unsatisfied (I do enjoy the sex still, but it would be 100 times better with an orgasm.)
I don't know how to approach the subject... because a lot of men (not all of you, but a lot) get butthurt or offended about it. Obviously communication is the only way this is going to get resolved.
How would you want your partner to communicate this issue with you?