u/FlimsyIce4193

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I’m a 3rd year BTech CSE student, and I feel completely stuck right now.

I chose computer science because I genuinely liked coding at first. But now, after seeing the current job market and how fast AI is evolving, I feel overwhelmed. It looks like in this field you have to constantly keep upgrading your skills just to stay relevant.

The problem is—I don’t want that kind of life.

I don’t enjoy studying all the time. The idea of working a full-time job and then coming home to keep studying just to not fall behind… I honestly hate that. I want a stable job with a decent salary where I can have a life outside work, not something that constantly demands more and more from me.

At the same time, I can’t just leave my degree. My family has already spent 3 years of fees, and there’s pressure to finish it. Switching paths isn’t really an option financially. Government jobs also don’t seem realistic for me because I don’t have the time or patience to prepare for them.

So I feel trapped:

I don’t want the “always upskill or become irrelevant” life

I can’t leave my degree

I don’t have a clear alternative path

I’m not aiming for a super high-paying job. I just want something stable, permanent, and not mentally exhausting where I can maintain a decent personal life.

Has anyone else felt like this or been in a similar situation? What did you do?

Any advice would really help.

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u/FlimsyIce4193 — 12 days ago

I’m a 3rd year BTech CSE student, and I feel completely stuck right now.

I chose computer science because I genuinely liked coding at first. But now, after seeing the current job market and how fast AI is evolving, I feel overwhelmed. It looks like in this field you have to constantly keep upgrading your skills just to stay relevant.

The problem is—I don’t want that kind of life.

I don’t enjoy studying all the time. The idea of working a full-time job and then coming home to keep studying just to not fall behind… I honestly hate that. I want a stable job with a decent salary where I can have a life outside work, not something that constantly demands more and more from me.

At the same time, I can’t just leave my degree. My family has already spent 3 years of fees, and there’s pressure to finish it. Switching paths isn’t really an option financially. Government jobs also don’t seem realistic for me because I don’t have the time or patience to prepare for them.

So I feel trapped:

I don’t want the “always upskill or become irrelevant” life

I can’t leave my degree

I don’t have a clear alternative path

I’m not aiming for a super high-paying job. I just want something stable, permanent, and not mentally exhausting where I can maintain a decent personal life.

Has anyone else felt like this or been in a similar situation? What did you do?

Any advice would really help.

reddit.com
u/FlimsyIce4193 — 12 days ago