Me (22F) and my boyfriend (M23), met while traveling, fell in love hard and we’ve never felt this connection to anyone before. We get each other and after 2.5 years together we can read each other’s minds. We have so much fun, and we recently just moved into a place in a great location of the city. We go out on weekly dates, we cook for each other, we talk all the time, and when we’re off to work, we get home and we instantly come hug each other.
I’m living the best moment of my relationship and my libido has never been this low…idk what’s wrong. I’m still very attracted to him, but somehow sex is not going through my mind.
I have endometriosis and it’s just shit, I’m unfortunately one of those really bad chronic cases, and I get so much support from my partner. On top of that, I have strong PMDD, which is almost like being bipolar, except it’s not random moments in life. I change into 2 different people every month, just because of how strong my hormones hit my brain.
I’ve been having a hard time mentally, not gonna lie. I’ve been doing therapy for 9 years, and taking meds for about 1.5 years to help with how my endometriosis and PMDD affects my brain.
It’s embarrassing to talk to people about it, I’m not unhappy and he’s just such a great partner. I think I’m the problem but I wanna fix it. I just don’t know how. What coulda it be? Why is my libido low?