My ex and I broke up 18 days ago. I’ve been blocked on every platform since the second we split up haven’t heard from him once so I’ve been healing and doing what I can for myself to move on.
I woke up and had a message from his friend that I’ll put below but why would he have his friend message me this when it was already clear he was done?
Ive been doing so good the last week and now I feel like all my emotions are flooding back in and I’m so confused on why he would go out of his way to have his friend message me.
He clearly states he’s moving on and wants nothing to do with the relationship anymore but if he truly felt that way wouldnt he just leave it how it’s been with the No Contact instead of reaching out through a friend. ??
I’m just lost and confused now.
“Hey it's ****; a friend of *****
He just wanted me to be a messenger. But he no longer wants to maintain a relationship with you, he would like for both of you to go your separate ways and move on. He confided on me he does not have that same spark he did at the beginning of the relationship and he is confident it is gone; it won't be coming back. When his service is over he wants to be independent and free of relationships. He truly does wish the best for you but for his happiness (& yours') he needs to walk away from this relationship, friendship, all of it...
All the best.”