My bf (35) thinks Im f(29) a liar
So its been an off few days, we'll for starters i was out with my sister running a few errands and he texts me out of nowhere stating I think its time for us to go our separate ways. Obviously in shock, we pulled over and I call him.
Asking questions and he believes I haven't been honest with him and he just doesnt want to deal with all the questions and going back and forth, I told him, I complete agree, neither do because I did nothing wrong and asked him if we can continue this conversation at home. ( we live together )
He gets home and we spoke on the couch, he explained his side that he finds it suspicious that me and my sister had a conversation the previous night about drinking and going somewhere ( yet I didnt confirm any plans) and she randomly shows up today.
I explained that she called and noticed I was home a lone and asked to come over. ( I called him to let him know who im with and where im going ) yet he found it suspicious???
Then my friend who works overnight, it was her birthday a few days ago, she mentioned she'd be at work, and i told her id be there to gift her something.
I told my bf the day off and if he can come with me. We'll guess what, I fell asleep and so did he, so I got dressed, wrapped her gift and told him if he still wanted to come and he said no. He found that suspicious that I could have given her gift in the day time.. I get that but I said id be there that night. Im sticking to my word.
I did nothing wrong and ive been 100% present within our relationship and it just hurts that he thinks im being sneaky or suspicious.
We've spoken and have a spare bedroom, he said he'll sleep there and we can continue forward until I get myself prepared ( like finding a place and saving money)
Then out of nowhere hes like how about we continue on how we've been going, and we will put a pin on this problem ( like let's see how we do and feel and come back to talk about it in a few) basically give it time to process...
Im just confused whether he wants to work on his insecurities and mend whats happened or if he wants to make the process easier for me and him by playing our roles until we find enough security to just call it quits..
I dont know what to do and we did get "together" after our conversations.. we feel closer but I dont know if its the healthiest route.
Should I leave ? Should I stay and work things out ?
I love this man..
TL;DR : my bf doesnt trust me anymore, i did nothing wrong, should I leave or stay ?