I can’t stop thinking i should break up with my girlfriend who i love!!!
hi. my gf and i (both 26) have been together just short of 3 years. we have lived together for one year. we are about to move into our second house together.
about six months ago during some crazy work stress, i started spiraling that we should break up and i should move across the country. i have ocd and it sort of spun itself into an obsession. my therapist and i ended up chopping it up into an obsession that came from work stress and a desire to escape.
now here we are, about to move into another house, and the feelings are back. i’ve had some crazy friend stress lately so i think it’s probably that coming back. my gf is aware of this and is very compassionate and supportive of my crazy worldwind thoughts. just nervous moving into this house is a bad idea, and that i should just end things before we move. but what do i even know. I love her so much, and our relationship is so strong i don’t know why I’d want to end things.
any advice is welcome. therapy next wednesday 🤞