On February 21 my grandma (102) was in the hospital going through her last moments. I was at home with my father, and we had texted my aunt, asking her how my grandmother was doing. she would see my messages, but never replied. My father and I knew that my grandmother was very sick, but we didn't know in what hospital she was in, and the rest of the family weren't in contact with us. The last message I sent my aunt was on the night that my grandmother passed asking her how she was doing and when was she gonna be discharged. My aunt read my message, but didn't respond.
The next day, around 1:30-2pm, I logged into my Facebook and saw that one of my cousins posted a picture of grandmother saying, " R.I.P Grandma" I was shocked and confused and I commented on his picture asking him when was he gonna inform that OUR grandmother had passed away. He saw my comment and quickly deleted it. I immediately called my dad to ask him if it was true that my grandma had passed away. when I called him, he was dumbfounded and told me that he had no idea that his mother had passed away, that his sister hadn't called him to inform him. I told him what I had seen on Facebook, and he was very upset that no one called him.
I called my other cousin to confirm and she told me that our grandmother had passed the night before. I asked her why she didn't call me or our aunt call me to let me know. all she said was " I don't know." That got me very upset. it hadn't been 24 hours since my grandmother had passed and I found out that her family stole everything from her apartment. I did not attend the funeral or the burial because I didn't want to see my family because I knew that I was gonna end up arguing with them.
My father attended the funeral and burial and he told me that after the burial, that's when they decided to tell him that while she was dying, she was asking to see my dad and I, and they were all there and not one of them had the courtesy to call me or my dad to let us know. That was really hurtful. I will never forgive them for that.