26(f) 27(f) my partner never initiates sex and also never really flirts or sexts
I love my partner and she’s the best but I don’t think we’re compatible sexually and it’s really hard for me because I love her so much but I have been getting really sexually frustrated recently, and I try my best not to be. My partner and I only get to see each other maybe every month or two for a short period of time and she never initiates sex or really is touchy or flirty and I’m really a touchy person. When I initiate she’s usually down, but I usually have to do things to her first and then I get like a little bit (we’re two girls) when we’re apart we’d never flirt in text message and she doesn’t really like to sext or talk dirty because it feels weird to her. Whenever I bring up that I wish we were more sexually intimate. The conversation always goes not good and that I make her feel bad about sex because I always want more than what she can give. I don’t really know what to do it just kind of sucks because I wish I could just tell her like I just want a little bit more intimacy like we don’t even have to have sex, but I just wish we were more sexually intimate or like flirty, I don’t really know it’s just kind of dry and I have a way more higher libido than her so I try to understand, but it’s really hard to not get a little frustrated. Do I have to break up with her because we’re not sexually compatible?
I also want to note that I would never force sex on her and I never want to make her feel uncomfortable. I just wish there was a little bit more excitement.