Were any of you ladies the one who had the affair?
Title says it all. Throw away account. I knew I wanted a divorce before my emotional affair. I asked for a divorce, he promises to change. Then he learned about the affair and is holding our kids as his manipulation tactic. I agreed to fix the marriage with him at this point, but I think i agreed to it out of survival. Ive been invisible in my marriage for so long, a SAHM to 4 kids, 2 with significant special needs. We've been married almost 8 years. Im exhausted, depressed and burnt out. I know I cheated and im not innocent, but he logged into and tried to change passwords ans recovery numbers on my Google accounts and other social media and I feel so violated. I dont have alot of hope moving forward, but the only thing I care about is my kids. I dont have local family support and my only support lives out of state which I cant move the kids there with me. I feel so lost and stuck.