u/Fizzerino_

I just got home from college yesterday afternoon after a five hour drive. I broke down as soon as I got home because it just feels wrong. I don't know how to explain why I feel so wrong being home other than the fact I've built a new life at college that finally feels like mine and makes me feel like me. At home I feel trapped and smothered by my parents who like to control every little move and decision I make and if they can't they like to criticize me.
Anyways this entire week of trying to pack my stuff up and finish finals, my mom has been a stuck up bitch and my dad has been a moody little toddler. She acts like she knows everything and everyone else is in the way and is in the wrong, yet complains when no one is helping her or doing anything for or with her. Then my dad has been complaining about doing anything period. He throws a tantrum and acts like he's never done anything ever in his life whenever anyone asks him a question or asks him to do the most simplest task ever. The other day, I asked him to help me fold a couple blankets to pack in the cars and he told me to hand them to him. Now I wouldn't have had a problem with that if they weren't literally right next to him. Like on the same damn couch. I told him to pick them up himself because of that and he got all pouty and huffy like an actual toddler and started acting like he couldn't fold them. I ended up folding all five blankets myself.
Today I'm trying to unpack my stuff and asked him if he would help me LATER. He said he can't because he's too tired. I proceeded to ask him if he would help when he woke up and he then said he didn't want to because it's too much.
Told my mom all of this and she told me just to be patient and that it'll get done eventually. I just want all of my shit unpacked so that I have access to it but I'm physically incapable of doing it alone because I'm disabled and they know that yet neither one of them care. Am I overreacting by being so upset and getting mad at them?