I’m 61, Wife is 60, been married 40 years. Last 30 years our sex life has been real bad. She stopped working about 25 years ago, I make a really good living and I feel she’s only staying married cause I provide everything.
We’ve gone years without sex, I would say the last 8 years or so we average about 2 times a month, maybe…
I ALWAYS initiate, I get turned down 90% of the time.
We had a huge talk about it 3-4 months ago, explained how I feel, she said she’d try harder and would try to initiate.
Nothing has changed.
I can’t leave cause she has no means to take care of herself, although the house is in her name and it’s worth more than a mil.
I keep promising myself to not initiate, but I keep failing, I feel like a perv when I initiate, she says all I want is sex, not true, I’d be ecstatic with once a week.
I’m totally frustrated and don’t know what to do, I feel totally lost.