Hey guys I’m 23F and my Bf is 28M. He recently upgraded his phone and didn’t factory reset his old phone. While he went to work, I snooped through his old phone. I found him messaging girls on clapper for private videos and sending them money. I also found a private album with nudes of his ex friend with benefits before our relationship that he was keeping. We have been together for 4 years now. I have never had any doubts before and I have snooped through his phone and found clapper before but I didn’t know he was sending money to girls then. I just need some advice if I should bring it up to him and expose that I snooped through his phone or let it go if it’s not that big of a deal. We’ve discussed in the past that messaging live girls makes me uncomfortable and now I found nudes that he’s keeping of an ex situationship who I was insecure about and told him. I feel hurt and like my trust was broken.
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Hey guys I’m 23F and my Bf is 28M. He recently upgraded his phone and didn’t factory reset his old phone. While he went to work, I snooped through his old phone. I found him messaging girls on clapper for private videos and sending them money. I also found a private album with nudes of his ex friend with benefits before our relationship that he was keeping. We have been together for 4 years now. I have never had any doubts before and I have snooped through his phone and found clapper before but I didn’t know he was sending money to girls then. I just need some advice if I should bring it up to him and expose that I snooped through his phone or let it go if it’s not that big of a deal. We’ve discussed in the past that messaging live girls makes me uncomfortable and now I found nudes that he’s keeping of an ex situationship who I was insecure about and told him. I feel hurt and like my trust was broken. I need advice on how to move forward.