how do i make them NOT my crush
first post!!
WARNING: i may end up not gettign directly to the point and not being concise..
so basically i like this one person. he lives in my community, and his building is barely 15 steps away, so he lives THAT close to me. we both are the same age and he doesnt go to school (i do tho!!) and the only way we know eachother is bc we became friends somehow, 5 years BACK
HOWEVER, we were just acquaintances kinda friends..not super close. he didnt come out for a LONG time (maybe 4 years or smth) and when he DID start coming out again, we became friends AGAIN thru a mutual. me and him became EXTREMELY close. hes one of my CLOSEST friends (and its been REALLY less time since ive known him again). he has also hinted multiple times, or maybe it was just platonic flirting, which was probably being mirrored since i do that a LOT, to LOADS of people
now, the PROBLEMS.
- he likes someone else
- a mutual likes HIM
- a random girl ALSO likes him (he does NOT want her)
- WE cant be together...because im not a girl..
ive ALWAYS had a crush at any point in my life, but it was always never serious. THIS time tho..its like a full on crush...
i dont want to confess, tho he suspects i like him. im not interested in a relationship (tho ive neevr been in one) but a small experimental one or smth would be nice!! idk...sooo ADVICE?? 😭😭