AIW for wanting to cut off girls I’ve known for 10 years for not supporting my relationship
I’ve been best friend with JJ and Since we were 12 and friends with DD since 11. We are now 23 and I have been in a very happy loving relationship for 3 years now with a man with 2 kids. JJ and DD have always disliked this relationship 1) bc he has kids 2) hes divorced 3) they think I’m too young to settle down and 4) they say he’s quiet around them.
Everything kinda came to a head within the last month cause I got pregnant (sadly I have since miscarried) but when they found out I was pregnant JJ became very upset said I was wasting my life having and taking care of kids when I should be out partying and when I was told of my miscarriage I told her and she went to say something then said “I was gonna say something mean” and refused to elaborate. So I hung up and haven’t talked to her since and I’m considering not talking to either of them.
This sucks because I absolutely love them but we have a gap that might be too large to leap. I can feel their judgement whenever I talk about my daughters,my job,my boyfriend. Mind you all they want to talk about is weed,the new hookup,and randomly FaceTiming me drunk. Neither of them are working or in school so all they really do is smoke weed,drink,and play videos games. When ever I bring this up after they start ratting on my life they blame it on trauma that they can’t do anything when we all have the same trauma it was a big reason we became friends in the first place.
I also don’t understand anything my boyfriend has done wrong. He pays our bills by himself on-top of spoiling me and our daughters,his daughters absolutely adore him he’s a great dad,he’s never yelled or screamed at me in the 3 years we have been together, whenever I’ve had something bad happen (my miscarriages or my mom being diagnosed with cancer) he took such good care of me while I pretty much became a husk of a human being and he’s never once glanced at another woman. If I was them I’d be happy for my friend especially since the know in my past relationship they were physically and mentally abusive. I just don’t understand what the problem is and I’m getting sick an tired of being looked down upon because I want a happy normal life after an extremely rough one why can’t they just be happy for me. Ya anyways would I’d be in the wrong if I stopped talking to them