My cousin's dad (my uncle) passed away last year at midnight and the moment he called me, I rushed to his home and watch the undertakers take his dad's body away. I waited with him til dawn and helped him search for funeral services online while he was in a daze from the shock of losing his father.
My boyfriend helped drive him and the family around during the process of going to the mortuary, going to the funeral location and finally, send him home. After all of that, he only gave my boyfriend a measly $150 as a "token of appreciation". What the F? That's all our efforts were worth? He's so ungrateful!
After the funeral and cremation, his dad was put in a columbarium spot where he felt was too gloomy and dark so he decided to pay another $1000 to shift his dad to a "better spot". He's so troublesome and dramatic.
A few months down the road, I would check in on him and ask if he's doing okay but he would say no and that he was still grieving. I feel it's a waste of my efforts to comfort him and tell him to think positive. You're telling me after 3 months, you're still not over it? The drama king would also cry and spill his heart out to me whenever we drank and it annoys the hell out of me. I couldn't care less to be honest. I feel that him being depressed and coming over to my place also attracted negative spirits to my house as I could feel a presence in my house after he left. I don't care whether it's my uncle or some other spirit from outside. Just don't bring it to my house!!!
After he got some inheritance a few months down the road, he brought me and my mum on a trip to Australia and paid for our flight and accommodation but was too cheapskate to buy an add-on for me to bring a bigger luggage. Talk about ungrateful lol after I helped with the funeral this is all i got?
My mom went to ask him for another $6000 saying that she had chronic pain in her legs and had to quit her job temporarily to recover and he actually gave her. She then used it on alcohol, cigarettes, took a cab everywhere she went and even got a tattoo and tipped the tattoo artist. He noticed the way she was spending was unacceptable and told me to try and tell my mum to not spend so carelessly. Why is that my problem? He's dumb enough to give her the money so why was he complaining?
His dad had a cat and he was not in the right place mentally to take care of it. My kids wanted the cat so I told him that they could adopt it and take care of it for him. What a mistake on my part. We're waiting for our new house and I did not want the cat moving in with us so I made him take the cat back. He did not even treat me to a meal for that favor and I was so pissed.
Lastly, he bought a $165 figurine along the way. Do you guys think money changes a person? I feel he's splurging after receiving that inheritance.
He found out about some stuff that I said and decided to cut us off completely. I have never met anyone this ungrateful in my life.