u/FitPreparation1591

I've seen many people on this sub crying about their AP's self-contradictory mindsets, and that kind of annoys me because mine were too. Like, why don't they want us to achieve what they really want us to? What's holding them back? I get confounded whenever this happens, and the worst part is that, every fight is a losing battle. You'll never be able to prove them wrong. It ends up in tears, and misery, and the control is just devastating. At this point the asian rulebook is a joke. "Have kids, so you force your expectations on them, and let them achieve for you" merely isn't applicable for some APs. They force expectations, yet they stop you from working hard the moment you follow their orders. Anyone who can relate to/has some practical tips to avoid this?