AITA? Context: My fiancé and I have lived together since we decided to begin our relationship together because we’ve been best friends for the last 5 years and we practically lived together when we were 20 and had first met and began our friendship.
We will call him Jack (this is not his real name of course).
But I met Jack back in 2020 shortly after he had his daughter that we will call Jill and always seem like a great parent. And I have a 1 year old son with a previous partner so we both have kids and neither were a problem. We’ve been bestfriends and inseparable ever since we met and it had never crossed the line into something romantic until October of 2025 when we decided to try and instantly it felt like the love we had been missing and everything was going fine until we found out that I was pregnant in April and then he started acting weird. We were engaged the 19th of April and had a huge fight the 20th where I gave the ring back and said we weren’t ready to get married but I clarified that we would be working on things while still together since we have the baby on the way and he just didn’t like how things ended before bed that night and by the next day he was lying about going to work early and the rest of the week he was lying about working overtime or picking up days which his supervisor called me and confirmed that he wasnt showing up at the times he was telling me that he was and so on a night that he claimed to go to work but actually didnt I put out all his things in sectioned piles. Big items , clothes then his laptop, xbox, camera ect on top and kicked him out. Some of his personal electronics got damaged apparently in the midst of everything but he didnt notice until 3 days later and in those 3 days of not noticing he was still asking to come home and resolve things but then he saw his things were broken and now I’m the bad guy in the situation even though he was lying to his pregnant fiancee/ girlfriend about working and not telling her who he was with or where he was at is fine compared to his broken items.
Also side note , he owes my parents $3000 basically and has ghosted us all to avoid paying it but hasnt seen his daughter Jill in over a month and goes to concerts and events every weekend and skips work still and has completely disregarded that im pregnant with his child currently BUT im the asshole???