I have been dating this man for a couple of months. We got into talking about body counts he shared his was 4 and I told him mine was 4 as well. A month later he randomly brought up that he was bothered by my body count. He stated he was not trying to shame me but that was pretty high for him. He did not like the thought of me having relationship with someone else. He stated he didn’t know if he could get over this and asked what I thought about that. I became angry because his body count is also 4 and he is significantly younger than me. He stated this was different because he was a man but refused to expand on that. I told him that was when I was younger and I have not been intimate in 2 years and I cannot change the past. He told me he would think about it and get back to me I said to not bother because that was very telling.He said he assumed I wouldn’t have been with anyone. He later apologized to me and said he did not mean to shame me. A day later he messaged again apologizing stating I was great it’s not me it’s him and where is head and thoughts are right now. I am feeling so heartbroken we did not date for long but it’s been awhile since I have dated. Am I in the wrong is my body count too high? I’ve never had an issue with it before I am devastated. I might add he had only been in a relationship 3 years ago that was off and on for 7 years. This to me also states he can’t commit?
TL;DR I (25F) got ended with by (20M) over my body count being to high when his is the same number