I need advice/opinions about my situation.
So basically me and this girl have been seeing/talking eachother for about a month now, Conversations are great and engaging, the chemistry is great in person when we go out to do an activity or go out for drinks. We got alotta things in common. She did mention in the middle/early in the month that she got out of a long term relationship alil over a year ago that she ended and was over it. Anyways, we’ve hooked up, like we did everything else except doing the deed. But this last weekend the one before this recent one is when we went all the way for the first time together (not in terms of experience) like the action of it happening for the first time between us, consensually in the car bc it was in the heat of the moment lol. We chilled for abit after it happened, talked about nothing serious/laughed, i gave her after care etc. then i went home it was all good. Texted her i had a great time with her and she said she did too with a heart. We dont talk all day long which im cool with because we both work during the day, she gets off kinda late bc she works in the ER. so when we’re off work towards the end of the day thats when we go back n forth with texts/audio messages frequently and on day offs. But about 2 days after that happened the frequency of texting from her dropped, it seemed she pulled back a bit. I still get texts/audios back just not as much anymore, about 2 texts a day now but the messages are still very much engaging, not dry at all, Asks me questions. Same energy just like in the beginning. Just not replying as frequently. She apologized on some days for not replying either because of being too tired from work, busy with family, or really sad about some stuff. And of course i gave her my emotional support and she opened up to me abit about what she was sad about. But regardless, i dont know what to do, or what i should do? I havent brought up why the sudden drop of frequency and im not blowing up her phone. i kinda just gave her space bc i assumed thats what she wanted indirectly so Ive just been matching her energy. Is it a good idea to ask whats going on in a non-needy way but idk how to.. or kind of just not say anything and let it ride out and see what happens or if she brings it up?
Thank you!