Disclaimer: Please bear with me about still using Snapchat, I know. Anyways, my girlfriend (F20) and I (M21) have been dating for a little over a year after a first breakup a year before this. Anyways, about halfway through, I noticed her snap score was going up like crazy with odd patterns every day, and I asked her if she’s talking to anyone (she had in the past which we dealt with), and and she said no constantly and kept telling me I’m toxic for asking. But she left her phone open on the bed around 5 months ago, and I briefly opened Snapchat and saw multiple guys texting her and sending voice messages and her texting back, and saving pictures in chat and flirting. She got extremely angry and told me she’s leaving me for going through her phone and said it doesn’t matter what I saw, but I ended up solving it and we worked it out. Fast forward to now, she’s become very emotionally removed and we have argued a lot about similar things, and her snapscore is moving constantly and late hours of the night, to which she says is her just “opening wall pics”. On top of that, I am number 2 on her best friends list for two weeks straight, while a guy is #1 on her best friends list. That can only occur if she interacts with someone more than me. She told me it’s from a random guy who sends her spam snaps and she opens then once every few days, but I heard that excuse like 6 months ago too, and that still wouldn’t make sense because that would put HER on HIS number one spot, but wouldn’t make his go on her number one spot unless she interacts just as much with him, and more often than she does with me. But when I bring this up, she tells me she has no idea why it’s staying there and threatens to block me if I keep asking. Is she lying to me, and is she actually still talking to someone? Also if anyone here is around my age group/uses Snapchat, please tell me if you think the snap excuse about the friend’s list sounds real or if that’s a lie.
TL;DR: girlfriend (F20) tells me (M21) that she isn’t talking to anyone on Snapchat, and that her snapscore changes are just from blank wall pics, and that the guy who’s above me as her #1 best friend is just someone who spams her and she barely replies to, and if I ask her to explain how this makes sense, she tells me she’ll block me. Is she lying?