u/Financial_Resist7716

I've been married for almost 15 years. My husband hasn't touched me in over 3 years. We sleep in separate bedrooms and neither of us are in a hurry to change that. I've had multiple men tell me he's definitely cheating if he's not even remotely interested in his wife. If he's cheating, how do I catch it? I've checked his phone a couple times but I never find anything. He's not very tech savvy at all.