u/Financial_Oil4765

My (37F) boyfriend (31M) said the bartender wrote her number down on the bill. He texted her after. He feels extremely remorseful and we had defined the boundaries in our relationship and are trying to work it out. I decided to msg her to see if ther stories matched. She says he pursued her. Do you think people are capable of changing? He also lied about what she looks like- saying she was blonde and a little shorter than me. In reality she is a bull bodied Latina. Ughhhh what to do.