u/Financial-Pain9062

I'm from computer science/ cyber security background and a vibe coder. I want to start slow from basics in workflow automation and then I would like to go for an agentic workflows.

The problem I'm is not getting clarity over about the setup

Some ppl say you need to have a dedicated dedicated system and some others say personal pc is enough

Also there are many automation platforms Like

Openclaw, N8n

Can anyone recommend some intro tutorials for basic under with no cost

My pc

16 gb ram

1 Tb

4 gb vram

I'm from computer science/ cyber security background and a vibe coder. I want to start slow from basics in workflow automation and then I would like to go for an agentic workflows.

The problem I'm is not getting clarity over about the setup

Some ppl say you need to have a dedicated dedicated system and some others say personal pc is enough

Also there are many automation platforms Like

Openclaw, N8n

Can anyone recommend some intro tutorials for basic under with no cost

My pc

16 gb ram

1 Tb

4 gb vram

I'm from computer science/ cyber security background and a vibe coder. I want to start slow from basics in workflow automation and then I would like to go for an agentic workflows.

The problem I'm is not getting clarity over about the setup

Some ppl say you need to have a dedicated dedicated system and some others say personal pc is enough

Also there are many automation platforms Like

Openclaw, N8n

Can anyone recommend some intro tutorials for basic under with no cost

My pc

16 gb ram

1 Tb

4 gb vram

Guys how do you feel about the new scarf gadget It is shitty in my pov

Had a crush on a girl in undergrad. Not super popular but a few guys liked her. Thought it'd pass, but in final year I panicked and wrote her a poem — she told friends it looked like ChatGPT wrote it. I felt crushed. The letter leaked to a few mutual friends, got a bit awkward for her.

Tried apologizing, she said it's okay, then I confessed in a desperate tone — no reply.

Six months later, tried again. Conversation was going okay — normal small talk — then I asked if she likes anime, then K-drama... ghosted.

Another six months later, same birthday month, so I wished her. She replied "thank you." Then I fumbled again — "I made a birthday video for you, want me to send it?" — ghosted again.

I sent an IG request, she didn't accept. Self-respect kicked in, I removed every link — WhatsApp, LinkedIn, IG, even left our common group.

In masters, had a crush on my class rep. We had common interests, easy chemistry. I expressed genuinely, she declined respectfully. I felt okay — not devastated.

The real problem: I still can't get over my bachelor's crush. She crosses my mind almost daily. I sometimes get delusional thoughts like "I have to make her mine." There's one mutual friend who still talks to her and it makes me jealous.

I don't know how to move on. Has anyone been through this? How did you cope?

Tldr;

I'm unable to forget my previous crush in undergrad where I didn't express properly and made desperate attempts got ghosted

Sorry this will be long 😥

Undergrad initial years

In my undergrad I had a crush on a girl(skinny) she's not that popular but good no of ppl have crush on her including my batchmates and my senior.

Undergrad final year

I thought it was just normal it goes with mean but in the middle of last year of my degree I felt this is time or else I will not be able to express her in my life time. So I wrote a poem and gave it to her. She said to her friends it was chat gpt that she wasn't able to understand it(I felt broken atm after hearing that). Then my letter got spilled to very few common friends of her and mine. it became lil uncomfortable to her as her starts to make fun but she can take it as there are some previous proposals

Then I tried to talk to her and start a conversation saying sorry she said it's okay then I made a confession kinda desperate tone then no reply

After 6 months from the previous incident

I completed my last year and I tried to talk to her again

Conversation started smoothly like hi ,hlo

I asked her who she was doing and she replied she was doing an internship then she asked about me and said couching and planning my masters then I tried to talk normal conversation like do like anime she said no then do u like k drama then no reply

In my middle of masters

Again After 6 months from the previous wa chat

The thing my and her birthday month is the same I remembered her birthday wished birthday she replied thank you then fuck my chatting skills fucked up again saying "I made birthday videos for you would you like me send" ghosted again (idk term ghosted appropriate or not here).

After that I sent a friend request in ig but no response for a few days self respect kicked in removed as link I have to her wa(left my undergrad group as well), LinkedIn, ig everything

My masters crush

In my masters I had a crush on my Class Rep She was good and easy to talk to We have few common interests like anime and series. We chatted sometime very casually. I genuinely expressed to her she gave a proper reply that it's great to hear but I'm sorry that I didn't feel the same I said I wanted to express nothing she said oh that's nice here. I felt okay not bad

My persisting problem is

I'm never able to get over my bachelor's crush like my masters one. Idk why my mind keeps reminding her(almost every day). I sometimes get thought like I have to make her mine which is delusional. There's one friend who with me can still talk to her which makes me feel jealous

I don't know what to do atm !!!

Has anyone faced the same kinda shit how did you cope with it ?

I'm a noob

I'm very much interested in automation and workflows what should/can we do with open I'm curious and want to start using it

Tldr;

I'm unable to forget my previous crush in undergrad where I didn't express properly and made desperate attempts got ghosted

Sorry this will be long 😥

Undergrad initial years

In my undergrad I had a crush on a girl(skinny) she's not that popular but good no of ppl have crush on her including my batchmates and my senior.

Undergrad final year

I thought it was just normal it goes with mean but in the middle of last year of my degree I felt this is time or else I will not be able to express her in my life time. So I wrote a poem and gave it to her. She said to her friends it was chat gpt that she wasn't able to understand it(I felt broken atm after hearing that). Then my letter got spilled to very few common friends of her and mine. it became lil uncomfortable to her as her starts to make fun but she can take it as there are some previous proposals

Then I tried to talk to her and start a conversation saying sorry she said it's okay then I made a confession kinda desperate tone then no reply

After 6 months from the previous incident

I completed my last year and I tried to talk to her again

Conversation started smoothly like hi ,hlo

I asked her who she was doing and she replied she was doing an internship then she asked about me and said couching and planning my masters then I tried to talk normal conversation like do like anime she said no then do u like k drama then no reply

In my middle of masters

Again After 6 months from the previous wa chat

The thing my and her birthday month is the same I remembered her birthday wished birthday she replied thank you then fuck my chatting skills fucked up again saying "I made birthday videos for you would you like me send" ghosted again (idk term ghosted appropriate or not here).

After that I sent a friend request in ig but no response for a few days self respect kicked in removed as link I have to her wa(left my undergrad group as well), LinkedIn, ig everything

My masters crush

In my masters I had a crush on my Class Rep She was good and easy to talk to We have few common interests like anime and series. We chatted sometime very casually. I genuinely expressed to her she gave a proper reply that it's great to hear but I'm sorry that I didn't feel the same I said I wanted to express nothing she said oh that's nice here. I felt okay not bad

My persisting problem is

I'm never able to get over my bachelor's crush like my masters one. Idk why my mind keeps reminding her(almost every day). I sometimes get thought like I have to make her mine which is delusional. There's one friend who with me can still talk to her which makes me feel jealous

I don't know what to do atm !!!

Has anyone faced the same kinda shit how did you cope with it ?

Tldr;

I'm unable to forget my previous crush in undergrad where I didn't express properly and made desperate attempts got ghosted

Sorry this will be long 😥

Undergrad initial years

In my bachelor's I had a crush on a girl(skinny) she's not that popular but good no of ppl have crush on her including my batchmates and my senior.

Undergrad final year

I thought it was just normal it goes with mean but in the middle of last year of my degree I felt this is time or else I will not be able to express her in my life time. So I wrote a poem and gave it to her. She said to her friends it was chat gpt that she wasn't able to understand it(I felt broken atm after hearing that). Then my letter got spilled to very few common friends of her and mine. it became lil uncomfortable to her as her starts to make fun but she can take it as there are some previous proposals

Then I tried to talk to her and start a conversation saying sorry she said it's okay then I made a confession kinda desperate tone then no reply

After 6 months from the previous incident

I completed my last year and I tried to talk to her again

Conversation started smoothly like hi ,hlo

I asked her who she was doing and she replied she was doing an internship then she asked about me and said couching and planning my masters then I tried to talk normal conversation like do like anime she said no then do u like k drama then no reply

In my middle of masters

Again After 6 months from the previous wa chat

The thing my and her birthday month is the same I remembered her birthday wished birthday she replied thank you then fuck my chatting skills fucked up again saying "I made birthday videos for you would you like me send" ghosted again (idk term ghosted appropriate or not here).

After that I sent a friend request in ig but no response for a few days self respect kicked in removed as link I have to her wa(left my undergrad group as well), LinkedIn, ig everything

My masters crush

In my masters I had a crush on my Class Rep She was good and easy to talk to We have few common interests like anime and series. We chatted sometime very casually. I genuinely expressed to her she gave a proper reply that it's great to hear but I'm sorry that I didn't feel the same I said I wanted to express nothing she said oh that's nice here. I felt okay not bad

My persisting problem is

I'm never able to get over my bachelor's crush like my masters one. Idk why my mind keeps reminding her(almost every day). I sometimes get thought like I have to make her mine which is delusional. There's one friend who with me can still talk to her which makes me feel jealous

I don't know what to do atm !!!

Has anyone faced the same kinda shit how did you cope with it ?

I have been using tools called jobscan and jobilytics but no luck so far now I'm going to try cvnormist do you guys know any other tools that might be helpful ??

Guys have u seen a lot of free watch websites are taken in a very short amount of time they use

I believe they are using ai to harvest the data

What are your thoughts

Does anyone know about how bamboo HR ats works has anyone got pass through it