u/Final_Bed_1843

It’s the first time that a loved one is diagnosed with cancer.
Tomography showed:

Metastases in the liver many lesions
Metastases in the lungs both sides
Lymph nodes involved
Fluid in the lungs
Body already affected systemically

They didn’t even offer him oncology treatment. No chemo, no surgery, nothing only symptoms treatment.

My dad is terminal ill and will die. I’m broke in pieces and he’s in other continent with my mother. I plan to fly there but I’m so scared and in panic.

Why they don’t offer treatment?
Anyone experienced this with a family member and can they survive longer even if doctors say no?

Please help .. I’m desperate.

I am New on this group
My father started to have problems to speak and also he’s a stomach was getting bigger so he went to the internist. They sent him to the hospital.
Tomography shows two more in the lungs and two more in the liver is very big.
If anyone here has experienced, this means that the cancer spread because they don’t know yet where they started we are only in the diagnosis face. Anyone knows if this has a treatment or if surgery is not possible or if my dad will die