Thinking back to my journeys through findom, I keep finding myself coming back to friendzone dynamics and how enjoyable they are. It truly embodies what it means to simp for women and make their happiness your priority. Do others here feel the same, or do you go for the more intense femdom-esque dynamics?
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I discovered findom after being introduced to it through an irl friend. However, I was already deep into gooning at that stage, so my addictive personality took to findom quickly.
Given that gooning is such a prevalent kink within findom, I've been wondering on this friday whether my experience is typical or if gooning is as prevalent within findom as the internet makes it seem. Did gooning lead you to discovering findom, or through findom you became a gooner?
For me, after a wave of low self esteem regarding my desires to simp/engage with findom, once I embraced it my mental health has never been better. I'm curious what the experiences have been for everyone here
Due to the intense/addictive nature of findom, I feel like people in this kink spend more time fantasizing about future possibilities/fantasies then those in other kinks. I'd love to hear what your ultimate fantasy/desire is when it comes to findom!