u/Filthyirish86

For the last few months, my wife and I have been going through some financial difficulty. Every time I bring up ways of us making extra money she always tells me that I’m overreacting and that I need to just relax and let everything work itself out. I have told her multiple times that that’s not the way the banks think. She doesn’t realize that two years ago when she got fired from a good paying job, she really really screwed us and we have been trying to recover ever since. Is it bad for me to not forgive her yet for that job? even though the job she’s at now is making her happier. I just don’t know what to do anymore.

TL;dr I am feeling overwhelmed and feeling like I alone carry the financial burden for both of us.