A older boy at my kids elementary school was kissing my 1st grade son
Apparently today when my wife picked my son up from the bus stop. The bus driver said he was kissing another boy and had them stop. My son told my wife the kid asked if he could kiss him and my son said no then the kid told my son to look out the window and when my son turned back the kid started kissing him. My son doesn't know who this older boys name is but told my wife he's not in his grade.
Apparently this older boy slaps him and a few other kids butts and hits him in his privates at recess. I work the evening shift so I haven't had a chance to talk to my son yet but I will tomorrow. My wife is going to talk with the bus driver and call the school about this ( she knows I'm hot headed at times) but I'm absolutely disturbed and grossed out from hearing this and infuriated to the point Ive actually been debating telling my son to punch this kid if he tries that again.
I don't advocate violence We've always told him to tell an adult if someone is mean to him but idk what to make of this. My head is spinning from hearing all this and I'm struggling to think clearly. Any advice would be great