u/Fickle_Radish2418

Reality check?

We’ve been looking at houses for a while on and off for about 2 years now and we’ve been quickly priced out of the market. We’re wanting something with a little bit of land and a little bit of room compared to our smaller house now.

We have a max borrowing capacity of 1mil as I am currently on maternity leave, returning back to work in September (this will increase our borrowing capacity. But we’re unsure if we want to take on more debt)

We found a house we like and were considering putting a offer in. It’s been on the market for 4 weeks and they’re asking offers above 1.1 mil. We spoke to the agent at the open home and they said we could just put an offer in and see.

We’re considering going in at 950k and expecting them to then it down
property average online value is 1.08
Currently empty.
They paid $385,000 - have done work to the land but no inside changes

Are we wasting their time?
Are we looking at a terrible time to buy?

It’s genuinely what we can afford and what we’d get approved with in our current situation. We would be able to sell our house (as the realestate has said it’s an extremely desirable location, size and in a good price range. It’s suitable for first home, investment or an older couple downsizing)

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u/Fickle_Radish2418 — 3 days ago

What’s your sleep schedule for your 1 year old?

I have no idea what to do

We were 5am wake up- nap one 8.30/9 for 30 minutes - nap two 1-2/2.30 bed 7

Then at exactly one they started sleeping till 6/7am so we went to a 11am to 1 pm nap bed time at 7pm and it worked great for about 3 weeks and now I have no idea what the go is

They appear to want a early nap again but are refusing a second nap and want to be up for 10 hours at a time 😭

Yesterday was all over the place with two naps which resulted in a 8.30 bed.

Woke at 6am still - first nap was 9.20 till 10.40 and then I tried for a second nap at 2.30 but they’re just not having a bar of it (they’ve been awake for 4 hour and 20 minutes and no sign of a nap coming.

Please please help 😭

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u/Fickle_Radish2418 — 9 days ago