u/FickleImportance4654

Hi all,

I’m an ENFJ (M, 33) and I’ve recently found myself getting quite close to another ENFJ (F, 31). It’s been a really fun experience so far with easy communication, strong emotional understanding, similar values 😊 - and it’s made me curious about how this pairing tends to play out longer-term.

I’m aware that with ENFJs there’s always the “healthy vs unhealthy” dynamic, especially around things like people-pleasing, emotional intensity, and boundaries. So I’m interested in hearing a range of experiences.

For those of you who’ve had close friendships or relationships with other ENFJs, or you've seen an ENFJ/ENFJ relationship, what worked particularly well?

And what challenges showed up over time?

Thanks for any responses! 🙏