u/Few-Temperature8677

I just graduated college and I am off to grad school, my bf however has no desire to go to school or to figure out a long term career plan. This along with other things like inability to open up about mental health issues, inscurity issues, ecxess drinking etc have all kind of icked me out for lack of a beter term. I love him and we have broken up before and gotten back together under the agreement of working on things commuincating etc and I feel like this is not happening on his side. I am going to talk to him about it but I am fighting the urge to break up with him. I am not sure if I am over reacting as we are young. I am just more and more unattracted with him because of the lack to go out and do things that will benefit you in the long run. 

I just graduated with my BS in a human/child development degree. I have applied to 4 schools, am waiting for 1 decision. I got in at University of Kentucky's online MSW ( differed for a year) . I was rejected from UVU ( this was shocking to me as it is a pretty general state school.) I applied last minute to the U of Utah's part time three year program ( this only runs every three years so I keep telling myself that its just a small program and that is why I did not get in.) I have a lower gpa because of some math class issues, but I have lots of volunteer experience. I am taking this next year off but would love any advice on how to strengthen my apps for next year.

Thanks!