Like many others, i’ve been feeling this way for years now and have been going through the motions of life. I go to work (10hrs 4days a week kinda spoiled), go home watch TV or game, I take care of house chores as needed (clean, cut grass, laundry, take care of animals……etc) I don’t have much motivation to do much anymore, I used to go rock climbing, was super motivated to learn bass, was on a good grind with working out and staying fit. Lately I’ve just lost a lot of passion for the things I enjoy. Lost the “light in my eye” you could say.
My dating life doesn’t really exist anymore, sorta just gave up after failed relationships and the abysmal dating app experience, not to mention I bought a house with my parents due to health issues with my dad and feel like that is gonna make any woman not want to date me.
I have a good group of friends, I probably could be a better friend myself but we all have our issues and are understanding of one another. I do talk to some of them, but should be a bit more open with them.
My man question is, how can I get back to the old me. I do have some bad habits I could drop (smoking pot and porn) I am aware these aren’t helping me, but kinda stuck in the cycle with my vices.
Any advice would be appreciated and will do my best to answer any questions to further your advice.