Hi!
I’m 19F and I’ve never had an orgasm with another person. Ever. I can get there by myself with no problem but for whatever reason I just can’t do it with another person. My usual partners are men and I’ve gotten kind of close before but never actually finished. I used to think that I was having them and that penetration orgasms are just different from clitoral ones, but when I gave myself my first orgasm from penetration I realized I’ve never had one with a partner. I’ve tried to help them get me there, I’ve touched myself before and during to try to finish, but nothing ever works. Its hard to get my partner to touch me and things of that nature, most are not comfortable doing that stuff with me which I try to be understanding of, but they always ask me “did you cum” like they have some sort of magical penis that can make anyone finish. It makes me feel like shit having to lie and pretend like I’m feeling good when in reality sometimes I don’t feel anything! It’s like my body doesn’t work or something. Is this normal? I know most people say woman have trouble finishing but every friend I talk to about our sex lives say that they have multiple orgasms like they don’t even have to try. So now there’s this added pressure of having to fake NOT having to fake my orgasms in front of my friends and it makes me feel so embarrassed. I’m not a super attractive woman, so I’m assuming that might have something to do with it? I am really at a loss, it’s like I’m broken down there or something. I can’t even think about having sex or even having an orgasm without feeling like I’m less than because I can’t have them with other people. Any advice ladies or am I just doomed?