Did I ruin this? [23F]
I [23F] have a guy [24M] best friend and we expressed our feelings for each other a few months back, however, he’s not in the space for a relationship and I completely understand that. But I recently told him I might start dating again just so he doesn’t think I’m waiting for him (i don’t want him to resent me if I do) and he was very emotional about that comment. Ever since then he’s been more distant, but that was not my intention at all. I asked him if he was upset about it and he said no and that i should live my life. But i want him in it. I know I’m very avoidant and I do self-sabotage a lot. But I want to explain myself further to him because I do care a lot about him and would like to further our relationship. Do you think it would be best if I did talk to him more about it?