u/FernAlexandra

My boyfriends love language is physical touch and he very heavily relies on sex. Lately (In particularly after child birth) my labido has been shit and I just can't seem to want to get myself in the mood to have sex or to even solo play. This is affecting our relationship as he's not getting his love language and sex is feeling like a chore to keep him happy. He wants me to try more but I don't know how to get my labido back up to try or how to give him that level of love language without it being sex (cuddles and stuff just aren't enough for him). Any advice would be helpful!