u/FeralGiraffeGirl

I've had other gf's previously that I didn't feel the same way about. Some of it is just I'm the most able bodied of the two of us, so I end up with all the physical tasks. She is disabled though, so I can't feel too bad about that. I also end up getting pressed to make a lot of decisions in general and specifically for her as well (which I'm not fond of). Furthermore, I'm the one with the most financial stability, so most things that cost money fall to me as well. Again, she's disabled, and that's not her fault. In the bedroom, she's basically a self described pillow princess, and the bottomiest bottom I've found. Which is okay, I'm a top heavy verse/switch, but it does suck to be tight cast as a top no matter what headspace I'm in. Furthermore, I have some fantastic tits that she doesn't pay attention to. Also, she talks enthusiastic a lot about my genitals. I don't have a ton of bottom dysphoria, and I know I'm a big girl and that excites people. I guess I just wish she'd pay more attention to the rest of my body. Anyone else feel like this? Is it just brainworms?

After having to cohabitate for a year. After surrendering custody of two of our three cats to her (and their subsequent passing). After years of physical and emotional abuse . After 15 years of putting myself last. I'm finally free.