Hi guys 28M here from UK, I know this might be something that can be found in the sub/repetitive but it’s a tiny bit different. Sorry for the long post
I have had some symptoms and pain since November/December last year following unprotected oral sex, however burning when peeing hasn’t been a big one, it’s happened a handful of times not my main symptoms. I have had some irritation itching of the urethra though but my main symptom has been pain in the testicles, abdomen and lower back. They all come and go and change in intensity but mostly everyday I have been in some sort of pain. Also my semen consistency has been unusual since this all started and my pre ejaculate has been a lot thicker than before and I produce a lot more.
The thing is I have never had a positive test, I’ve tested 3 times for UU and twice for UP all urine PCR. It’s not as though I have tried treating and then testing negative, just haven’t had one at all. All samples I gave were holding urine at least 3/4 hours of not first urine of the day. I’ve tested 3-4 times for everything else aswell. The only antibiotic I’ve taken since the start was Oflaxacin in December but I started testing for mycoplasma/ureaplasma 5 weeks after finishing. And then of course tested more as more time went on
I’m really confused and losing my mind over if what I’m experiencing is mental or something else but what blows my mind is that my eyes have also been irritated for a couple of months now too and I have wbc 74 /uL in my urine. I’m in a really difficult position because I never knew this existed and thought I was clear for everything, the oral sex I received was during a break from my long term partner. I didn’t disclose anything as I didn’t want to hurt her but after we got active again, she started showing unusual symptoms too. I’m really scared and this has been the most mentally taxing 5/6 months of my entire life. I feel that I need to tell my partner to get tested and I’m so terrified of causing her such pain, things have been difficult between us as it is. In need of your thoughts please I’d really appreciate it, I’m slowly realising I’m really devastated over all of this.