u/Federal_Pop3521

She currently goes to school sometimes, but not everyday like i do. We're both 14. We're in middle school. I usually spend the weekends with my mother and week with my father. The problem is, she's the most selfish and mean person I know. I genuinely cannot be around her. She's snarky, she lies, she constantly asks for money and cannot do literally anything without it. For example, if she wants to go to a store, she won't accept any compromises. It's her way or nothing else. She's honestly so immature. She's used my money multiple times, and what makes this all worse is we're all struggling financially. She herself is oblivious about how awful she is to us, never apologizes. She has a boyfriend and online friends she of course acts different with. She also constantly insults me and calls me retarded when she feels like it. My father is more strict and cold with her, which i feel like is the correct thing nyt my mother.. I appreciate her always standing up for me, but it's those responses that snowball into fights where we're all sad. I hate it so much. I do care for my sister but it hurts so much to admit she's just not a good person by any way. Sometimes on rare days it's all okay, nice even, but that's only a chunk of it. I usually get to forget it when i can be alone at my father's place but i constantly think about my mother having to deal with my sister. Because of this I think i've developed a fear of confrontation with my family + need to feel in control and like things are fine. Just needed to vent.

TL;DR: Selfish, mean sister is hurting our family.