u/Federal-Air-8899

So I at the time (26M), was using Tinder and other dating apps as my main way to date and hook up with women (I should mention that I had “straight” in my profile). I matched with one who was 24 and looked completely female. She had great pictures, was attractive, and overall seemed like my type. I read her bio and there was no mention of her being trans at all as well as anywhere on her profile. Anyway I sent her a message and she replied almost immediately. We exchanged messages for like 20 minutes straight and yeah, I did the typical setting up a hook up the same night routine. So yeah anyway we made plans to hang out at her place. I arrived and she looked just like she did in her profile. Her voice was feminine as well. Like there were no indications at all that she could have possibly been trans. We drink some wine and talk for like close to an hour probably. Overall it’s really flirty and we have good energy and chemistry from what it seems like how a typical good date/hook up should go. I proceed to make my move as I always do when the time’s right. We make out and she asked me if we should take it to the bedroom. We do, and from there we’re making out and I’m feeling her all over like typical foreplay stuff ya know. I’m feeling down there and I realize she’s not really getting wet at all down there like what’s typical of normal foreplay for this long. We start removing clothes and then she says she needs to use lube because she doesn’t produce enough naturally. That set somewhat of an alarm in my head since I just didn’t know any other 24-year-old or anywhere in that age bracket of women who were that dry AND I had read previously that post-op trans women’s neovaginas don’t self-lubricate from arousal like the real ones do. That didn’t immediately make me think she was trans though. So yeah, I asked her if I can lube her up but it was mostly an excuse to get a good look down there to see if I could find anything off. As I was looking I saw some clear surgical scars. Not only that but the labia minora looked really off like it was only halfway formed, plus there was like basically no clitoral hood. I’ve seen enough female genitalia up close at this point to know that the labia minora should typically connect to the clitoral hood. But also while I was looking I could just see her look visibly scared that I might make a discovery. I 100% knew that this was surgically constructed genitalia at this point so I just straight up asked “Were you born a man?” Her facial expression changed dramatically and she looked panicked and said “please don’t hurt me.” I just left. I hated that experience and it really changed me as a person.