u/Fearless_Welcome4413

Hi, I cut contact with my BPD ex and blocked her. I told her I don’t trust her, that I’m angry, and that we broke up. During this, she made offers like “let’s meet in 6 months” or “let’s talk once a month,” and I didn’t accept.

Meanwhile, she was threatening me with suicide.

When she asked “Are we never going to talk again?” I said “I don’t know.”

She said “This is very uncertain.”

I said “We’re breaking up, there’s no uncertainty about that. Maybe if we run into each other in the future, we’ll talk.”

She said “You’ll see me when I’m better.”

I said “Get better.”

Did I leave the door open? Should I unblock her and tell her I never want to talk to her again?

I’m scared that in two years she’ll message me through a friend saying “I’m better now, let’s start again, I waited for you while I was getting better.” Should I unblock her and be clearer?

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u/Fearless_Welcome4413 — 8 days ago